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Wednesday, November 07, 2007

A Toast

My sister's wedding is in two days. It's gonna be small...about 20 people...at my parents house. It'll be short and sweet. Today my sister asked me to give a toast. I said "yes"...I mean, I didn't think "no" was an option. I usually like public speaking and am pretty good at it. But I'm not looking forward to this particular speech. I'm afraid I'm gonna sound fake; I'm afraid I'm gonna cry; I'm afraid I'm gonna freeze. As happy as I am for her, I am equally sad for me. And that makes this hard.

6 Comments:

Blogger Carrie said...

Just make sure your toast isn't "well ladi-freakin-da... you got married... congrats... I hate you." that would be bad.

2:34 PM

 
Blogger tahj said...

wow. i really like carrie's suggestion. i think that about sum's it up.

actually, i think b/c this is hard is the reason i think you will think up something genuine and meaningful to say. or you could always sing. "the trick! the trick the TRICK! the trick." i think that is fitting. i also think my comment is longer than your blog.

12:40 AM

 
Blogger christina said...

hey heather, i found your blog by the way-side (i.e. martha's blog) and thought i'd say hello and also thanks for the info on the avett bros. down in houston. my friend and i made the show and LOVED it so much. many thanks.

10:30 AM

 
Blogger Martha Elaine Belden said...

wow... congratulations to sister hubbard.

i know how you feel about the mixed feelings. that's how i felt for my best friend's wedding... and the toast was hard. but a tahj says, it also makes it more genuine. i know whatever you say will come from the heart and touch all those present.

and if need be... you can borrow from the avett's... i think that line would be perfect :)

and thanks again for introducing me to the avetts... i can't wait to see them again!

2:07 PM

 
Blogger Cara said...

i'm glad this went well, heather. i'm sure it was beautiful. did you cry?

p.s. for this comment to make sense, you have to know that i talked to heather and heard that it went well. i did not hear, though, whether or not she cried.

2:17 AM

 
Blogger crackers and cheese said...

I'm glad that the toast went well! Did you write it down beforehand? If so, maybe you should post it, if it's not too private.

11:39 AM

 

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